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re: The Chronicle office battle

because it’s not real if it’s not on the internet, here is my letter to the Hofstra SGA in regards to the battle for the Chronicle office. Ryry and DG have already written their very brilliant letters here and here.

You guys (by which I mean esteemed ladies and gentlemen of the SGA),

Cut the crap already. Seriously. You know as well as I do that taking The Chronicle out of its office is a poor decision. Ryan Broderick has told you. David Gordon has told you. Lisa DiCarlucci has told you. Every dear person who took time out of their busy, underpaid day to write to you has told you that this is a bad choice on your part.

Yes, the office is one of the few legacies Hofstra has that doesn’t include binge drinking or sorority girls putting alcohol up themselves. The student newspaper is a truly worthy endeavor for students of this University - the students who give up the time they could be binge drinking to do something that actually matters. Something that matters to them in their future careers and something that matters to the University as a whole.

You as members of the SGA are doing just that. You’re giving up your time to help the school and to help your fellow students. I fail to see how taking away the Chronicle office from the students who spend most time in it and putting them in a considerably smaller space is helping anyone. You can’t work until 4:00 a.m. on a Tuesday night in a 7’ by 9’ space. If we wanted to do that, we’d just go back to our dorm rooms. That office is our work space, our lounge, our cafeteria, our home. In between classes, when it all got to be too much, I didn’t go back to the overpriced single steps away in Alliance Hall. I went to Chronicle office, saw my friends, ate a sandwich, took a nap. I’m sure I spent more time on that filthy green couch in four years than I ever did at the desk Res Life gave me.

Hofstra might brag all it wants about the School of Communications, but when it comes down to it, it’s the time I spent at the Chronicle, the experience I got there, that taught me more as a journalist than any of the class assignments I completed out of Dempster. I’m sure SGA isn’t concerned with academics, but it would seem the School of Comm isn’t either. For what other reason would they let us falter like this time after time?

But this is all old news. As is SGA’s battle against the Chronicle. I say it’s time to cut the crap, let the only student newspaper on campus work in the space we’ve had since the beginning of time (Hofstra time at least) and get back to making this the school we want it to be; a school where students help one another, not one where we pick petty fights and hold silly grudges.

With the best regards, I am

Sincerely yours,
delia p

Class of 2009

i always struggle with blogging about personal issues

not sure if that’s to do with needing to keep a sense of privacy or just being afraid to tackle real problems in my life, but i always find pressing the “publish” button near impossible where important situations are involved.

anyone else feel that way? or are you comfortable letting it all hang out?

follow up: thank you so much for the great responses. i so appreciate your sharing your thoughts on this!

here’s a book you could get me. and here’s how i came to think of it:
in Jen Doll’s first post for the Atlantic Wire, she brings to light new app WotWentWrong, which “asks users to ‘proactively seek feedback’ from their dates…and ‘develop insights and behaviors to ensure your relationship goals.’” 
now i don’t need any feedback from anyone i’ve ever dated. mainly because their reasons would be as follows: “i needed to focus on my _____” [insert any of the following]:
band
career
writing
fashion line
taxes
football team
crippling mental illness
since these are all them problems and certainly not me problems, i have no need for feedback. (perhaps a need for therapy?)
the app’s ultimate goal is to garner ad revenue and sell you stuff when you’re at you’re weakest. so, for example, if your past partner says your tardiness is the reason for the breakup then (he’s a fool) the app would recommend something like the above tome. 
anyway, even if there’s no need for input, there’s always room for self improvement and i really am chronically late. perhaps this is something to add to the reading list?

here’s a book you could get me. and here’s how i came to think of it:

in Jen Doll’s first post for the Atlantic Wire, she brings to light new app WotWentWrong, which “asks users to ‘proactively seek feedback’ from their dates…and ‘develop insights and behaviors to ensure your relationship goals.’”

now i don’t need any feedback from anyone i’ve ever dated. mainly because their reasons would be as follows: “i needed to focus on my _____” [insert any of the following]:

  • band
  • career
  • writing
  • fashion line
  • taxes
  • football team
  • crippling mental illness

since these are all them problems and certainly not me problems, i have no need for feedback. (perhaps a need for therapy?)

the app’s ultimate goal is to garner ad revenue and sell you stuff when you’re at you’re weakest. so, for example, if your past partner says your tardiness is the reason for the breakup then (he’s a fool) the app would recommend something like the above tome. 

anyway, even if there’s no need for input, there’s always room for self improvement and i really am chronically late. perhaps this is something to add to the reading list?

because inside, i’m always 3 years old and this is the first time i’m ever watching Bambi - which, for me, was dubbed in Spanish (something i didn’t realize until years later)

because inside, i’m always 3 years old and this is the first time i’m ever watching Bambi - which, for me, was dubbed in Spanish (something i didn’t realize until years later)

(Source: e-r-i-c-a-l-e-e, via lumos-then-nox)

i remember on “30 Rock,” Jenna was going to be on the Wool Council. next logical question: is there a cashmere council? because if so, i’m certain i would do a very fine job as their spokesperson. of course, i would learn to go around saying “that’s not very caaazhzhzhzhmeeere”
(photo via)

i remember on “30 Rock,” Jenna was going to be on the Wool Council. next logical question: is there a cashmere council? because if so, i’m certain i would do a very fine job as their spokesperson. of course, i would learn to go around saying “that’s not very caaazhzhzhzhmeeere”

(photo via)

PARTICULAR CONCERNS: short sleeve sweaters
the problem with short sleeve sweaters is that your arms are still bare, even though you’re already wearing the item that you normally layer over something when you’re cold. and with bare arms, they’re bound to get cold. so what do you put on over the short sleeve sweater? not another sweater, surely. a blazer then? but wearing a sweater and a blazer indoors makes you pretty warm.
this is the predicament in which i find myself today, and the very serious issue i contemplated getting dressed this morning. i expect the men in white to come take me away any minute. i’m sure they don’t have short sleeve sweater concerns in the loony bin. or at the very least, the proper medicine cocktail to make the matter less urgent
(photo via)

PARTICULAR CONCERNS: short sleeve sweaters

the problem with short sleeve sweaters is that your arms are still bare, even though you’re already wearing the item that you normally layer over something when you’re cold. and with bare arms, they’re bound to get cold. so what do you put on over the short sleeve sweater? not another sweater, surely. a blazer then? but wearing a sweater and a blazer indoors makes you pretty warm.

this is the predicament in which i find myself today, and the very serious issue i contemplated getting dressed this morning. i expect the men in white to come take me away any minute. i’m sure they don’t have short sleeve sweater concerns in the loony bin. or at the very least, the proper medicine cocktail to make the matter less urgent

(photo via)

Is the International Baccalaureate Program Anti-American? | StateImpact Ohio

arguments like this are exactly why IB is so necessary. the prevailing thought that “american” should stand for ignorance, complacency and anti-intelligence make me all the more glad there is a program out there fighting this overwhelming stupidity we now call “patriotism.”

(full disclosure: i am an IB grad)

How to Go to a Party Alone | HowAboutWe

i am deathly afraid of going to things alone.

i hate it. i blame it all on prom. but then, what can’t be blamed on prom? my love of taco bell, the scar on my left foot, my hate of dresses with metalic threading are just some examples.

alas, dear friend Lauren Passell, the hilarious lady behind Loop Letters, is helping people like me (needy singletons) handle social events solo, with their dignity intact. 

takeaway: always talk about cheese. always.

(read the full article on Date Report)

since i just turned down the option of having hair and makeup done at the wedding in March (i plan to use the cash to drink away my single sorrows) i’ve got to make sure i don’t make myself look a fool…makeup-wise. obviously, i will look plenty silly as the only bridesmaid without a date.
lady trouble aside, i like Emma Roberts’ makeup here. that’s really all i wanted to say. good makeup, nice lashes. full stop
(via StyleCaster)

since i just turned down the option of having hair and makeup done at the wedding in March (i plan to use the cash to drink away my single sorrows) i’ve got to make sure i don’t make myself look a fool…makeup-wise. obviously, i will look plenty silly as the only bridesmaid without a date.

lady trouble aside, i like Emma Roberts’ makeup here. that’s really all i wanted to say. good makeup, nice lashes. full stop

(via StyleCaster)

aside from the insanely gorgeous landscapes of Hawaii, i did not like “The Descendants.” 
i found it over-reaching, self indulgent and ultimately more than a little shallow. introducing characters with problems and then ignoring them the rest of the film does not insightful artwork make. if you want a movie about a disfunctional family that brings it all together in the end, watch “Little Miss Sunshine.” that being said, the final scene of Alexander Payne’s latest venture did have a sense of the overtly adorable. but i could have gotten that watching Samantha Brown visit Oahu on the Travel Channel
(photo via)

aside from the insanely gorgeous landscapes of Hawaii, i did not like “The Descendants.”

i found it over-reaching, self indulgent and ultimately more than a little shallow. introducing characters with problems and then ignoring them the rest of the film does not insightful artwork make. if you want a movie about a disfunctional family that brings it all together in the end, watch “Little Miss Sunshine.” that being said, the final scene of Alexander Payne’s latest venture did have a sense of the overtly adorable. but i could have gotten that watching Samantha Brown visit Oahu on the Travel Channel

(photo via)

The Joy of Books

indeed, there really is nothing quite like a real book. or a real bookstore. in fact, i might head out to one right now just to peruse and enjoy. but also to buy so they stay in business. because try as it might, amazon.com does not make me feel the same things a lovely librairie can

(by crazedadman)

prettycolors:

#2f00ae

i could stare at this for hours. hours, i tell you! it’s at once stimulating and relaxing, soothing yet inspiring. how do you do it, #2f00ae? how? tell me your devil ways!

prettycolors:

#2f00ae

i could stare at this for hours. hours, i tell you! it’s at once stimulating and relaxing, soothing yet inspiring. how do you do it, #2f00ae? how? tell me your devil ways!

if we played “Ocean’s Eleven,” i’d want to be the Brad Pitt character in that i wore great suits and ate all the time

if we played “Ocean’s Eleven,” i’d want to be the Brad Pitt character in that i wore great suits and ate all the time

re: The Chronicle office battle

because it’s not real if it’s not on the internet, here is my letter to the Hofstra SGA in regards to the battle for the Chronicle office. Ryry and DG have already written their very brilliant letters here and here.

You guys (by which I mean esteemed ladies and gentlemen of the SGA),

Cut the crap already. Seriously. You know as well as I do that taking The Chronicle out of its office is a poor decision. Ryan Broderick has told you. David Gordon has told you. Lisa DiCarlucci has told you. Every dear person who took time out of their busy, underpaid day to write to you has told you that this is a bad choice on your part.

Yes, the office is one of the few legacies Hofstra has that doesn’t include binge drinking or sorority girls putting alcohol up themselves. The student newspaper is a truly worthy endeavor for students of this University - the students who give up the time they could be binge drinking to do something that actually matters. Something that matters to them in their future careers and something that matters to the University as a whole.

You as members of the SGA are doing just that. You’re giving up your time to help the school and to help your fellow students. I fail to see how taking away the Chronicle office from the students who spend most time in it and putting them in a considerably smaller space is helping anyone. You can’t work until 4:00 a.m. on a Tuesday night in a 7’ by 9’ space. If we wanted to do that, we’d just go back to our dorm rooms. That office is our work space, our lounge, our cafeteria, our home. In between classes, when it all got to be too much, I didn’t go back to the overpriced single steps away in Alliance Hall. I went to Chronicle office, saw my friends, ate a sandwich, took a nap. I’m sure I spent more time on that filthy green couch in four years than I ever did at the desk Res Life gave me.

Hofstra might brag all it wants about the School of Communications, but when it comes down to it, it’s the time I spent at the Chronicle, the experience I got there, that taught me more as a journalist than any of the class assignments I completed out of Dempster. I’m sure SGA isn’t concerned with academics, but it would seem the School of Comm isn’t either. For what other reason would they let us falter like this time after time?

But this is all old news. As is SGA’s battle against the Chronicle. I say it’s time to cut the crap, let the only student newspaper on campus work in the space we’ve had since the beginning of time (Hofstra time at least) and get back to making this the school we want it to be; a school where students help one another, not one where we pick petty fights and hold silly grudges.

With the best regards, I am

Sincerely yours,
delia p

Class of 2009

i always struggle with blogging about personal issues

not sure if that’s to do with needing to keep a sense of privacy or just being afraid to tackle real problems in my life, but i always find pressing the “publish” button near impossible where important situations are involved.

anyone else feel that way? or are you comfortable letting it all hang out?

follow up: thank you so much for the great responses. i so appreciate your sharing your thoughts on this!

here’s a book you could get me. and here’s how i came to think of it:
in Jen Doll’s first post for the Atlantic Wire, she brings to light new app WotWentWrong, which “asks users to ‘proactively seek feedback’ from their dates…and ‘develop insights and behaviors to ensure your relationship goals.’” 
now i don’t need any feedback from anyone i’ve ever dated. mainly because their reasons would be as follows: “i needed to focus on my _____” [insert any of the following]:
band
career
writing
fashion line
taxes
football team
crippling mental illness
since these are all them problems and certainly not me problems, i have no need for feedback. (perhaps a need for therapy?)
the app’s ultimate goal is to garner ad revenue and sell you stuff when you’re at you’re weakest. so, for example, if your past partner says your tardiness is the reason for the breakup then (he’s a fool) the app would recommend something like the above tome. 
anyway, even if there’s no need for input, there’s always room for self improvement and i really am chronically late. perhaps this is something to add to the reading list?

here’s a book you could get me. and here’s how i came to think of it:

in Jen Doll’s first post for the Atlantic Wire, she brings to light new app WotWentWrong, which “asks users to ‘proactively seek feedback’ from their dates…and ‘develop insights and behaviors to ensure your relationship goals.’”

now i don’t need any feedback from anyone i’ve ever dated. mainly because their reasons would be as follows: “i needed to focus on my _____” [insert any of the following]:

  • band
  • career
  • writing
  • fashion line
  • taxes
  • football team
  • crippling mental illness

since these are all them problems and certainly not me problems, i have no need for feedback. (perhaps a need for therapy?)

the app’s ultimate goal is to garner ad revenue and sell you stuff when you’re at you’re weakest. so, for example, if your past partner says your tardiness is the reason for the breakup then (he’s a fool) the app would recommend something like the above tome. 

anyway, even if there’s no need for input, there’s always room for self improvement and i really am chronically late. perhaps this is something to add to the reading list?

because inside, i’m always 3 years old and this is the first time i’m ever watching Bambi - which, for me, was dubbed in Spanish (something i didn’t realize until years later)

because inside, i’m always 3 years old and this is the first time i’m ever watching Bambi - which, for me, was dubbed in Spanish (something i didn’t realize until years later)

(Source: e-r-i-c-a-l-e-e, via lumos-then-nox)

i remember on “30 Rock,” Jenna was going to be on the Wool Council. next logical question: is there a cashmere council? because if so, i’m certain i would do a very fine job as their spokesperson. of course, i would learn to go around saying “that’s not very caaazhzhzhzhmeeere”
(photo via)

i remember on “30 Rock,” Jenna was going to be on the Wool Council. next logical question: is there a cashmere council? because if so, i’m certain i would do a very fine job as their spokesperson. of course, i would learn to go around saying “that’s not very caaazhzhzhzhmeeere”

(photo via)

PARTICULAR CONCERNS: short sleeve sweaters
the problem with short sleeve sweaters is that your arms are still bare, even though you’re already wearing the item that you normally layer over something when you’re cold. and with bare arms, they’re bound to get cold. so what do you put on over the short sleeve sweater? not another sweater, surely. a blazer then? but wearing a sweater and a blazer indoors makes you pretty warm.
this is the predicament in which i find myself today, and the very serious issue i contemplated getting dressed this morning. i expect the men in white to come take me away any minute. i’m sure they don’t have short sleeve sweater concerns in the loony bin. or at the very least, the proper medicine cocktail to make the matter less urgent
(photo via)

PARTICULAR CONCERNS: short sleeve sweaters

the problem with short sleeve sweaters is that your arms are still bare, even though you’re already wearing the item that you normally layer over something when you’re cold. and with bare arms, they’re bound to get cold. so what do you put on over the short sleeve sweater? not another sweater, surely. a blazer then? but wearing a sweater and a blazer indoors makes you pretty warm.

this is the predicament in which i find myself today, and the very serious issue i contemplated getting dressed this morning. i expect the men in white to come take me away any minute. i’m sure they don’t have short sleeve sweater concerns in the loony bin. or at the very least, the proper medicine cocktail to make the matter less urgent

(photo via)

Is the International Baccalaureate Program Anti-American? | StateImpact Ohio

arguments like this are exactly why IB is so necessary. the prevailing thought that “american” should stand for ignorance, complacency and anti-intelligence make me all the more glad there is a program out there fighting this overwhelming stupidity we now call “patriotism.”

(full disclosure: i am an IB grad)

How to Go to a Party Alone | HowAboutWe

i am deathly afraid of going to things alone.

i hate it. i blame it all on prom. but then, what can’t be blamed on prom? my love of taco bell, the scar on my left foot, my hate of dresses with metalic threading are just some examples.

alas, dear friend Lauren Passell, the hilarious lady behind Loop Letters, is helping people like me (needy singletons) handle social events solo, with their dignity intact. 

takeaway: always talk about cheese. always.

(read the full article on Date Report)

since i just turned down the option of having hair and makeup done at the wedding in March (i plan to use the cash to drink away my single sorrows) i’ve got to make sure i don’t make myself look a fool…makeup-wise. obviously, i will look plenty silly as the only bridesmaid without a date.
lady trouble aside, i like Emma Roberts’ makeup here. that’s really all i wanted to say. good makeup, nice lashes. full stop
(via StyleCaster)

since i just turned down the option of having hair and makeup done at the wedding in March (i plan to use the cash to drink away my single sorrows) i’ve got to make sure i don’t make myself look a fool…makeup-wise. obviously, i will look plenty silly as the only bridesmaid without a date.

lady trouble aside, i like Emma Roberts’ makeup here. that’s really all i wanted to say. good makeup, nice lashes. full stop

(via StyleCaster)

aside from the insanely gorgeous landscapes of Hawaii, i did not like “The Descendants.” 
i found it over-reaching, self indulgent and ultimately more than a little shallow. introducing characters with problems and then ignoring them the rest of the film does not insightful artwork make. if you want a movie about a disfunctional family that brings it all together in the end, watch “Little Miss Sunshine.” that being said, the final scene of Alexander Payne’s latest venture did have a sense of the overtly adorable. but i could have gotten that watching Samantha Brown visit Oahu on the Travel Channel
(photo via)

aside from the insanely gorgeous landscapes of Hawaii, i did not like “The Descendants.”

i found it over-reaching, self indulgent and ultimately more than a little shallow. introducing characters with problems and then ignoring them the rest of the film does not insightful artwork make. if you want a movie about a disfunctional family that brings it all together in the end, watch “Little Miss Sunshine.” that being said, the final scene of Alexander Payne’s latest venture did have a sense of the overtly adorable. but i could have gotten that watching Samantha Brown visit Oahu on the Travel Channel

(photo via)

The Joy of Books

indeed, there really is nothing quite like a real book. or a real bookstore. in fact, i might head out to one right now just to peruse and enjoy. but also to buy so they stay in business. because try as it might, amazon.com does not make me feel the same things a lovely librairie can

(by crazedadman)

prettycolors:

#2f00ae

i could stare at this for hours. hours, i tell you! it’s at once stimulating and relaxing, soothing yet inspiring. how do you do it, #2f00ae? how? tell me your devil ways!

prettycolors:

#2f00ae

i could stare at this for hours. hours, i tell you! it’s at once stimulating and relaxing, soothing yet inspiring. how do you do it, #2f00ae? how? tell me your devil ways!

if we played “Ocean’s Eleven,” i’d want to be the Brad Pitt character in that i wore great suits and ate all the time

if we played “Ocean’s Eleven,” i’d want to be the Brad Pitt character in that i wore great suits and ate all the time

re: The Chronicle office battle
i always struggle with blogging about personal issues
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